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90s Theme Murder Mystery Birthday Party

I turned the “big” 3-0 this month. I didn’t know how I wanted to celebrate this arbitrary number (because your health matters more than your age). I juggled between keeping it simple and go hiking with my husband and dog, go to a drive-in theatre, or go paintballing with my husband and nephews. If I was going to host something, I wanted to do a 90s “murder mystery” theme party. In the end, I chose to celebrate it with family and friends because they’re all as much a part of my journey growing up too.

What I Learned Starting My First Service Business

Are you a lifelong learner or someone who works better with structure? I have always believed in lifelong learning. It was not meant to be used as an excuse to perform poorly but rather to remind myself to be grateful for being alive at each moment in time. On top of that, it was also a principle I created that there is something to learn from every encounter and situation no matter how small.

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A Trending Culture

It has been four months since my last entry. I have been doing what I needed for my mental health and this meant learning to truly relax after I made a shift in my job allowing me to do so. The last few years has been full of nonstop changes and grinding without the pandemic added. I learned a lot from my previous job responsibilities but the flip side of it was that I was overworked and underpaid compared to the team and dealt with my portion of office politics.

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The Effects of COVID-19 on Asian Americans

Last month, what everyone worldwide has been taking precautions against, affected my family and me—we caught COVID-19. When the pandemic hit early last year, we all started wearing masks and only went out for essential errands. Those with job functions permitting started working from home. As much as we made ourselves more aware of our surroundings to ensure that we were doing everything we could to keep us and others safe, there comes a point where it escalates easily because of one person.

Kelly Chau Toshima Japan

Why I Choose to be a Fool

At a young age, I was the type of kid who sought adventures regardless of accompaniment. A quest could mean climbing up a small hill in the backyard imagining I was on Mt. Everest or wearing traditional Chinese hairpins pretending I was a princess during the Tang dynasty.

“I think it is normal for people to want to pick a side and insist that others do as well, however, if we insist on digging to the bottom, there will be inevitable darkness—some more externally harmful than others and others internally damaging.”

“They blame those who remain silent, they blame those who speak much, they blame those who speak in moderation. There is none in the world who is not blamed.”

Buddha, Dhammapada Scripture, Verse 227